Tantalizing Tidbits

July 30, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Mrs. Ten and I had sex last night. It was…mediocre. Sure, we both had a great orgasm but couldn’t tease each other for very long. Honestly, it could have been soooo much better if we both weren’t exhausted. Operating on 5 hrs of sleep per night all week has kind of sucked. Also, if the kids would just stop being assholes for about the last hour before bed that would really improve things…

Fitness things…

Today was going to be the big starting weight reveal. Got the scale out and ready to go for that first empty bladder, butt naked, morning weight, and…battery was dead.๐Ÿ™„ Got a new one now…so, tomorrow?

Progress with dieting so far. I am definitely feeling catabolic! Edgy, easily irritated, and sharp as a katana blade…Has it’s advantages and disadvantages but would be helped by more sleep! So far I’ve hit my calorie target every day for four days but the weekend is coming. Usually that’s a harder challenge….

Ranty thing…

I’ve been thinking about how utterly and completely disappointed I am in our country’s response to this pandemic and it’s caused me to re-evaluate the severity of disease at which I would predict society will disintegrate during a pandemic. Previous to this I would have said 20% mortality or more, perhaps a little less if there were significant sequelae. After Covid, and without significant societal adaptation, I’ve revised that to 5% mortality (about 5 to 50 times worse than covid is likely to end up being). That’s fucking pathetic. Just sad. It’s also well within the range of possibilities with the viruses we already know of that circulate in nature, should one become highly transmissable….Ughhh, saving for that bug-out shelter…

Random things…

Work is over for the week! I have tomorrow off!! Going to be busy but should still have fun!

July 29, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Masturbated this morning to the thought of a long, sensuous handjob with a little tongue in just the right places. I’ve been trying to pay a lot more attention to my orgasm lately. Today I was focusing on the sensatright before. Those little muscles that move cum into position right before. I feel like if I could get a little more conscious control over them I’d be able to edge more and fuck for longer. After those swimmers are in place I’ve mostly got the next set of muscles figured out but they seem like they’re a lot more excitable than the first set.. I’m working it. It’s not exactly an unpleasant process…

Fitness things…

Welcome to the first addition of this section! Now seems like a great time to state my goals, reasons why etc. Often times these evolve as I go but it should be entertaining to go back and see what I thought at the beginning vs the end. OK, here they are…

  1. Get back down to my goal weight, 185 lbs. Last time I was here I felt fucking amazing! I want that back. This isn’t about appearances. It’s about feeling great every day. That’s it. Period.
  2. Second goal is to get back into a more vigorous cardio routine. Last summer I messed up my feet pretty bad helping 13 train for cross country and I’ve been walking instead of running ever since. Need to fix that and mix it up again too. Walking, running, cycling, and later cross country skiing. Should be fun once the initial pain has passed.
  3. I need to get back to a reasonable strength training routine. First of all I kind of enjoy the process of progressive overload. Gradually increasing the weight until things that were once hard to lift are feather light. Also helps ramp up my metabolism so I can drop weight a little faster. Until it doesn’t and then my strength and cardio training start to compete with one another for progress. Still a long way off from that though.
  4. Long term impact- Most of the things on my bucket list involve long distance, strenuous exercise and travel. With a mere 5 years to go until the nest empties out and my body’s recovery speed at my age now is almost getting late to start. Need to get moving on this.

So, you might ask “What started all of this? What was the moment that tipped you over the edge?”

It’s been nagging at me for a really long time, like 3 years really. However, this past weekend I had to buy a size 38 pair of jeans.๐Ÿ˜”. That was it. That was the moment. Fuck this! This is the limit! NOPE, NOT GOING TO LIVE WITH THAT SHIT! I can do better!!

Random things…

Drove home just after twilight last night and it was almost magical. Saw a massive shooting star that probably made impact in the field next to the road. The fireflies were out like crazy. There was even a thunderstorm off to the south shooting lightning bolts every minute or so. Yet, cloudless and dry where we were at.

July 28, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Doy you ever feel like your sexuality is temperamental? On again, off again for absolutely no apparent reason. This morning when I woke up I felt about as unhorny as I possibly could. I seriously think I would have refused sex if it was offered to me. Now, four hours later, all I can think about is your lips around my cock and how glorious it would feel to fuck you. What has happened between now and then? I ate an apple and had some coffee, drove to work….that’s it.๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Serious things…

I’ve committed to finally dropping about 45 lbs of weight. You poor bastards…Yes, all 14 of you that have read this page will now become my accountability partners. Feel free to ignore this if you like. I will just keep imagining that you’re paying rapt attention to the fitness goals of an overweight middle aged dude… even if you’re not.. This section will heretofore be retitled Fitness things… and if I have any other rants I’ll drop those in a separate, hopefully non-recurring section.

Random things…

Came to work all excited to get going on stuff. Got here, internet was dead, lab work is caught up,, and now all I have is some super boring, extremely painful, technical writing to do…๐Ÿคฎ.

July 27, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Did some touch mapping this morning, exploring how different touches feel with my foreskin pulled tight versus normal. I’m circumcised so it isn’t the dramatic difference that it might be if I weren’t but nonetheless it definitely adds some intensity when pulled tight. Especially once the precum flows and things start getting wet. It had been about five days since my last orgasm and it felt really good to “unload” all that tension.

Considering a few new toys…In the market for a Wevibe Nova2 to try with Mrs. Ten (currently out of stock), a novice level prostate massager for myself, and some new fleshlight sleeves…

Serious things…

Ugghh…It’s Monday. That alone is far too serious for me…

Random things…

I was shopping for school clothes with 14 yesterday when he noticed an eyelash curler on a rack by the checkouts. He said it looked like a medieval torture device you’d use on someone’s nipples. I just shook my head but I have to confess it got me thinking…might be something to try with Mrs. Ten if she’s ever up for it….

July 25, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Not gonna lie. It’s been a very unsexy last couple of days. Not really sure why either. Maybe I’ve just been too busy. Maybe the realization that I need to start carving off some of this covid weight has me in an unsexy place…๐Ÿคทโ€โ™‚๏ธ. Whatever it is, when I think sexy cravings my mind just goes blank…๐Ÿ˜”

Serious things…

Ever notice how being around uppity people tends to make you act uppity as well. Like even when the other people aren’t being all that stuck up your expectation of their behavior has you acting stupid. Found myself in that situation last night…MUST RESIST and just be my normal weird self!!๐Ÿคฆโ€โ™‚๏ธ

Random things…

Spent 15 minutes having a discussion amongst our family about that quintessential summer right of passage; the leach that you encountered at the lake! What parts can a leach stick to and what parts can’t it?? My contention was that it all depends on where and how well you shave…

July 23, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

This morning I’m in the mood to make you come. I’ll wake you with my hands on your breasts, toying with your nipples and my hard cock grinding against your ass. Once you’re awake and wet I’ll keep teasing. I’ll hold you close, caress your thighs, your ass. I’ll run my rough hands over your neck and waist until you’re needing more. Then, I’ll slowly work your pussy until you’re squirming against my fingers. When I think you can’t stand it anymore I’ll get down between your legs and finger fuck you while my tongue works your clit. Once your orgasm passes I’ll thrust inside you hard and take what I need…

Serious things…

Does it bother anyone else that our Covid19 response is essentially the laughing stock of the whole world? Mostly everyone else is too polite to laugh but it’s ridiculous. We’ve given it the biggest most expensive half assed attempt of almost any other country and there lies the problem. In a well run country the leadership would have recognized the problem, united it’s citizens against it fully, and then tried to fix it. Not here…๐Ÿ™„

Random things…

Tomorrow is Friday!!

July 22, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

So I did a thing this morning….Trying this out and still getting the hang of it.

https://soundgasm.net/u/TenWays/Breeding-Good-Girl

Serious things…

Does it seem like we’re slowly sliding into a police state? I have to admit this whole thing with protesters getting tossed in the back of unmarked vans by federal agents really, really bothers me. Considering taking to the streets myself…

When will we know that America has slipped into authoritarianism? Not sure, but this definitely feels like a sign post on the trip in the wrong direction!

Random things…

The plant identification app is seeing more use!

Hollyhocks (Alcea rosea)
Goat’s Beard (Aruncus dioicus)

July 21, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

This morning I feel like being pampered. I want you to walk in, push me down onto the couch, and treat me to a slow, decadent blowjob. When you’re finished, simply lick your lips, smile, and walk away.

Serious things…

Working on a presentation right now. Finding it hard to focus. Sometimes it seems like if a job isn’t big enough it’s too easy to procrastinate and tell yourself you’ll get it done later. Yet, if it’s too hard it becomes overwhelming. I guess I’m a goldilocks presentation writer…

Random things…

What do you think the appeal was for Jabba the Hut to keep Princess Leia his prisoner? Obviously there wasn’t a lot of anatomical compatibility there. Must have been about power and control I suppose. How does Jabba’s species copulate? Ughhh…Not a pretty picture. Sorry!

July 20, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

My wife and I had sex last night. It had been a couple of weeks and it felt great to reconnect in that way. Foreplay was great. She road me until I couldn’t hold back any longer and we finished with her coming on her favorite Tryst toy.

Serious things…

I’d really like my kids to go back to school this year too. For SO, MANY, REASONS. Yet, taking the segment of our population that is most likely to exhibit asymptomatic infection, mixing them together and then sending them home to their highly susceptible grandparents seems like an extraordinarily bad idea…

Random things…

Among the plants identified this past week using the plant identification app…

Bitter nightshade (Solanum dulcamara)

July 18, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Last night I went to bed horny. I honestly think both my wife and I really wanted to fuck but there were two things working hard against us. One, it was Friday after a long week and we all wanted to blow off some steam. As a result, it was 1a when I woke up with the TV on and my wife snoring. Two, it was God damn fucking hot and we don’t have a/c in our room.

Even so, my subconscious seems capable of taking care of me when my conscious self is too dumb to get the job done. I had a really vivid dream about eating some fucking amazing pussy. It was tight, super wet, and attached to a sexy Asian woman who loved everything I was doing. And then came the fucking. Some of the faces and sounds she was making will be stored in my spank bank for life. In the dream it felt like we had been together a long time and after, we smiled and laughed a lot.

Got up this morning to mow the lawn and spent the whole time thinking about that dream…

Serious things…

I saw a person at Sam’s club yesterday wearing a mask. It sat below her nose and above her mouth…Just shook my head and kept walking. This is about as serious as I care to get on a Saturday.

Random things…

Today the songs stuck in my head have all been warped perversions of the classics. You know…

“Do your balls hang low? Do they wobble too and fro?” and the fan favorite by Tom Petty “Free Ballin’ “

I’m not sure whether it’s all that pent up sexual tension or the heat… After all it’s so fucking hot out right now that they are indeed hanging low and if we didn’t have company coming over I might indeed be free ballin’…

July 17, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Feeling soooo much like a blow job today. Would love to take turns exchanging oral favors until we’re both exhausted, lying in a puddle of spit and cum…Also, craving the feeling of hard nipples and soft breasts on my hands and chest and I’m fantasizing about fucking you against a mirror from behind while I pull your hair and growl dirty things in your ear. Got a little extra sleep last night so, yep, horny as fuck!

Serious things…

Did I mention that I am seriously horny today!! Also, it’s Friday and all that’s on my mind is the weekend!!

Random things…

Yesterday I saw a storm cloud that looked just like smoke rising from a fire into the sky. Weird but still really cool.

July 16, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Yesterday I discovered a new kind of orgasm. I’ll let you absorb that for a moment… I can assure you, no one was more startled than me (not least of all because I was the only one there). At least new to me anyway.

I’ve been experimenting with the art of the moneyshot lately and let me tell you, it takes no small amount of skill to really put it where you want it if you know what I mean.

Yesterday should have been pretty easy as all I was going for was a cream pie. Free stock photos for this are not as easy to find as you might think….Creating my own with the fleshlight seemed the easiest option since my wife is totally against posing for these things. You tell me, did I succeed?

Anyway, anyone with a basic understanding of the mechanics involved can deduce that coming deep inside is going to result in a longer wait to generate said image. So, I got myself ready to go, keeping only the head inside while I came. Not as easy as one might think. My reptilian brain kept wanting to take over and force me deeper. But…the sensation of coming with very little thrusting felt totally different than an orgasm deep inside.

Deep thrust orgasms are really great, don’t get me wrong, but I usually feel that pleasure all throughout my cock and prostate while my whole body spasms. A “no thrust” orgasm felt totally different. Almost like all that sensation was balled up and rolled into just the head of my cock. It felt like my head was positively glowing with pleasure. Eyes rolled back, impossible to stay silent kind of pleasure. Needless to say further experimentation is warranted…

Serious things…

I’ve been trying to brainstorm lately about ways to get more submissions for this site. If you have any ideas I am totally open to suggestions. Please send them! admin@tenwaystotouch.com

My vision for the site was to provide a platform for people to discover and share new ideas and things to try sexually. I need more submissions to do that effectively!!

Random things…

So far, zombie game= at least 8hrs spent playing, plants identified using new app=0. So, I guess the zombies are winning my internal struggle for plants vs zombies…๐Ÿค”

July 15, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Lately I’ve been fantasizing about anal sex. Fuck! I love how it feels when my head first slides inside you. The way you’re so smooth and incredibly tight. I love that we have to pause there to let your body adjust and accommodate me. I get to cuddle you a little and revel in the sensation, the naughtiness of fucking your ass. Then, when you’re ready the slow in and out until I’m all the way inside you. Mmmm…Usually I’m ready to come by now but I’ll hold on. I’ll take your vibe and work your clit until you come. It feels so fucking amazing when you come while I’m in your ass and just as you start to come I will come too. I’ll fill you up with my cum while we hold each other tight, grasping and moaning until we’re both completely spent.

Serious things…

Normally, I like to leave the politics off of this blog. I have some pretty strong views here but above all else I think what we really need is to put all the partisan bullshit behind us and do what we need to do to right this ship. We need to step up, grab our balls and tits and start hashing out what needs to be done to fix the wealth imbalances and global warming that currently afflict us. This really feels like an inflection point for the survival of democracy. I think our response to this pandemic should be a great excuse to get some serious work done on these fronts.

Random things…

I’ve discovered that an apple every morning, 7 or more hours of sleep, and 2 hours of exercise a day are what I need in order to feel my best self. A beer in the evening seems to help too…

July 13, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Got up bright and early this morning so that I could masturbate slowly and unload some sexual tension. I’ve been exploring reddit a little bit now and then and I came across some good material on r/cumsluts. Imagining coming all over a beautiful pair of breasts put me over the edge today. Was hoping for some nice slow sex with my wife last night but we were both exhausted and just flopped into bed and passed out.

Serious things…

Have you ever had people interact with you as an author, comment on your stuff, send in some submissions etc., and then suddenly disappear? Like, their website is gone, twitter profile deleted, vanished off the face of the earth kind of disappear. It’s always jarring when it happens and I’m usually left wondering what the hell happened and hoping they’re ok…

Random things…

Today is my first day back after a long vacation from work. Not going to lie, it’s been pretty underwhelming. Can I go back to vacation now please??

July 12, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Today I’d like to slowly undress you and then put your blindfold on. Take my time tying you up, legs spread wide on the bed. I’ll tease and torment you, edge you until you’re desperate, begging for release. Then, I’ll slide my cock inside you, remove your blindfold, and look into your eyes. “Come for me kitten”, I’ll whisper as I bury myself in you. You’re a good girl and you’ll obey, back arched, nails dug into my back as you scream my name. Feeling you come on my cock is going to drive me wild. I’m going to grab a fistful of your hair and use your tight little hole for my pleasure. When I can’t hold back any longer I’m going to burst inside of you, fill your slippery wet cunt with my cum. Then, I’m going to tease you again. I’ll start with your nipples and work my way down until I have you twisting and writhing on my fingers, tormenting you in all the ways I know you like. I’m going to watch my cum drip out of you while your pussy spasms and then I’ll untie you and give you the after care that good little sluts deserve.

Serious things…

It’s the weekend still. I am making an active effort not to be serious!!๐Ÿ™ƒ

Random things…

Considering downloading a zombie game for my phone and a plant identification app. Not sure which I am more excited about…

July 11, 2020

Sexy cravings and things…

Had a truly amazing orgasm last night. One of those where you can hear your spine crack a little while you arch your back. Was having a wank with my fleshlight and perusing the photo stylings of http://letmedothis.com

Serious things…

No time for seriousness today! Fuck it it’s Saturday. ๐Ÿ™‚

Random things…

Have a 3.5 hour drive into BFE today with literally nothing to look at the whole time. Ughhh…

July 10, 2020

I thought I’d start a little journal here in the hope that it will help me post a little more often. So, this is it… All of my random thoughts for the day!

Sexy cravings and things…

Feeling a bit tired this morning. I could definitely use a good orgasm to wake me up. Yet, I’m craving a cuddlefuck more than I am a lot of excitement to start. Something slow to get the gears turning and then a sudden violent release. I want to feel you coming on my tongue, watch you twist, moan, and arch your back. Then I want to slam my cock inside you until I’m ready to burst. Normally I’d want to come inside you but today I want to see my cum all over you. I’m going to pull out and come all over your breasts and stomach. I’m going to watch every thick, white rope of cum land on you, moan and growl all the harder for it, and then give you a little after care before heading off to start my day…

Serious things…

Has this ongoing Covid19 crisis changed your perspective on the future? The way the response has evolved here in the U.S really bothers me. As a researcher in infectious disease I’ve been watching the evolving response to this bug here with a curious sense of horror. It keeps running through my mind that inevitably another pandemic will happen someday. It could be soon, it could be decades from now. What will happen if the next pathogen is worse? Certainly there are a plethora of great examples of emerging pathogens that cause a far higher rate of mortality etc. Some of them are highly transmissable. What if the next one has a mortality rate of 20% or higher? Would you go to work? How would society cope in this situation? Clearly, based on what we’ve done with Covid so far, there will be mass chaos. I find the threshold at which we seem to break as a country to be depressingly low. I can only hope that when the next one comes we will have better leadership but I have almost no faith that we will. To put it simply, I’ve never wanted to set up a bug out shelter worse than I do at the present moment…

Random things…

It’s a beautiful day here. Sun is shining etc. The morning dawned cool but is warming rapidly. I wish I’d woken earlier and went for a hike at sunrise and that a great coffee shop would magically appear cliffside so that I could look out over the ocean. Watch the gulls fly out over the surf and watch the waves crash against the rocks while I sip a good cup after a long, strenuous hike…

Considering that I am no where near an ocean right now, coffee shops don’t usually magically appear in the wilderness, and I’m just laying on the couch in my boxers it’s incredibly unlikely this is going to happen…