Review: Thesexfulness.com

When I was given the opportunity to review Thesexfulness.com I was incredibly excited. After all, any opportunity I am given to learn something new about sex is always appreciated and eagerly pursued. That said, I had to wonder, as a sex blogger, was there really any new material to be found here?

After spending some time reviewing the site I was definitely intrigued. A quick glance gave me a good feel for how they’ve approached the topic. They do a very good job of presenting the material, maintaining a very respectful tone throughout while still keeping it informative and entertaining. That much was clear just from glancing around the site. So, I decided to give it a go, waiting patiently to find enough time in my schedule to do the site the justice it deserved.

As a busy professional, one of my first concerns about the site was whether the material would be digestible in small enough bites. I wondered, after looking at the length of each course, whether I would need to set aside entire evenings to view it (there’s a lot there!). However, I was pleased to find it had been broken up into short videos and the site tracks your progress in each course so that you won’t have to find your spot again.

During my 7 day trial I finished the following courses:

How to arouse her desire for sex with you and how to turn her on

This course was fun. Some of the techniques presented here for how to pleasure a woman were new to me, so that was great. Everything else felt pretty familiar, but it’s always good to be reminded about how to put her at ease and get her in the mood. I have to hand it to them, it was all sound advice and I wish I would have had it in my pocket years ago. As it is, I had to learn most of this through experience, much to Mrs. Ten’s chagrin.

Also, I’ve always been jealous of guys with Scottish accents. It’s such an unfair advantage. No other accent in the world allows you to be simultaneously intriguing to most women, yet still come across as “one of the guys” to every dude in the room. The presenter here was top notch.

Sleeping beauty: how to awaken a woman’s orgasms for man and woman

This was the first of three courses I took that were delivered by a female presenter. British accent. Yes, please! Ok, obviously I have a thing for accents. In any case, it added a little extra to it for me and made the material even more fun to watch.

The important thing here was the subject matter. You know, I’ve got a bit of experience under my belt and I thought I’d learned almost everything about how to make a woman come.  Turns out I was wrong. There was so much here that I wasn’t aware of,  and, looking back on some of my previous encounters I found myself nodding along. Hmmm…so that’s why she liked that!

With a little extra knowledge under my belt I tried a few of these maneuvers with Mrs. Ten. “The Banker” appears to be a surprisingly smashing hit! 

I can’t recommend this course enough. Not only is the course well presented and thorough, the techniques described are versatile. They could be applied with great effect to any vagina owner once the two of you figure out which spots she enjoys having stimulated the most.

Anal sex, how to make her love it for man and woman

Here was another course where I felt like I’d learned most of this the hard (and sometimes painful) way. This should be a must watch course for anyone hoping to try anal sex with their partner. Seriously, follow their advice. It will make the whole experience so much more enjoyable for both of you!

Mrs. Ten and I literally spent months trying to figure this out via trial and error and just about everything we figured out that worked is presented here.

A full guide to lingam massage pt1: How to give him a mind-blowing orgasm with your hands

I took this course primarily out of a desire to see whether any of the techniques presented would feel as amazing for us penis owners as advertised. Of course, a tremendous amount of the pleasure derived from these techniques probably comes from the joy of having an enthusiastic partner perform them on you. As an additional disclaimer, many of them aren’t really possible to do on your own (tried, failed).

That said, those that I was able to try on my own, were really, really great. I can tell you first hand that “the octopus is nervous” feels really, really good. In fact, after watching this course I found myself fantasizing more than once about receiving one of these massages. How wonderful would it be to have someone set time aside to perform one of these just for your pleasure? 

Mrs. Ten hasn’t had the chance to watch these yet, and with our ridiculous schedules I just can’t see it happening any time soon, but if the chance ever arises…This would make for a fabulous present on any occasion, far better than anything she could purchase at a store.

If you’re looking for a new way to please your penis owning partner, this could well be it. I’ve no doubt it will be well received.

Critiques

I had to really wrack my brain to come up with these so I want to emphasize just how nitpicky I feel in posting them. However, I also feel like honest feedback, when it’s constructive, is always a good thing. So, here are my only two criticisms.

1. In some of the videos there is a little background noise that I found distracting on occasion.
2. Some of the transitions between videos felt just a little repetitive when I watched several of them in one sitting. I don’t think I would ever have noticed this had I watched just two or three in a row.

That’s it. Everything else was extremely well done.

Normally, if this were a toy review I’d give a detailed description of exactly how it felt for me to use the toy. I’d go into detail about every sensation. However, I’m not sure that would be appropriate here given the nature of this review. So, since this is Ten Ways, I’ll leave you with ten reasons you should sign up to watch courses at Thesexfulness.com.

Reason 1: Sign up to learn more about how to pleasure your partner. There is so much good information here. You’ve read all about the g-spot, but what about the other four “spots”.

Reason 2: Sign up so that you can watch the videos together. If you’ve got compatible schedules I think you’d find it fun and incredibly arousing to try out the techniques as you watch them.

Reason 3: Sign up to increase your breadth of sexual knowledge. I’d never given lingam massage a second glance until I watched their video.

Reason 4: Sign up to learn some new techniques to try on yourself. Wake up those pleasure centers!

Reason 5: Sign up so that you and your partner can learn more about anal sex. The information presented here really could make the difference between your partner loving it and hating it. It’s definitely worth putting the time in to get it right. There’s just something extra intimate about anal sex that I really love.

Reason 6: Sign up to learn more about oral sex. I didn’t have enough time during my initial trial to watch these courses but there are several of them that are geared toward enhancing your oral skills. I know I’m planning on watching them.

Reason 7: Do you know which of your erogenous zones are most sensitive? Sign up to learn a few new positions that are highly effective at stimulating them.

Reason 8: Give an access pass as a gift. I can’t imagine a better wedding present than some of the knowledge conveyed here. The old adage “If only I’d known then what I know now” applies here. Now you can!

Reason 9: Sign up to learn how to stimulate his prostate. Speaking from experience, the sensations and orgasms that can be had from prostate stimulation really are incredibly intense. Don’t miss out on that.

Reason 10: Sign up for the simple joy of learning more about sex and pleasure so that you can experience it yourself and share it with your partner.

Well, that’s it for my review. I hope you’ll pop on over to Thesexfulness.com and give it a look! While you’re there don’t forget to check out their magazine as well!