Ten Ways to Touch Blog

About this blog

This blog is dedicated to the idea that sex can be fun in all kinds of different ways. It is  a repository for ideas and techniques that can be used to pleasure your partner.  It is a confessional for you to put some of your favorite kinks out there and all of the other stuff that turns you on.  It is a fantasy generator; an instigator of  sexual desire, a muse for lust and carnal play. On this blog there will be no judgmental discussions condemning one kink or another, just a brainstorm of sexual expression.  The idea is for all of you to submit your lists of: Ten ways to turn you on, Ten ways to touch you, Ten ways to fuck you, or Ten ways to make you come.  Any or all of these lists will do. They will be collected here and presented for the inspiration and enjoyment of all.  If you would like to write and submit a list please fill out your ten ways below.  I’ve also started a new feature on this blog where readers submit their fantasies.  I’m calling it Wildest Dreams! I’d love it if you’d submit your hottest, wettest, horniest fantasies by clicking the link below and I’ll post them here!  Enjoy the site!


Peg me! Please!

I’m not sure why pegging was such a scary kink for me to finally get up the nerve to try. Perhaps it is the power exchange. I tend to want to be the dominant...


Sacramentum Culicidae

It’s funny where the inspiration for my stories comes from sometimes. This one came to me while sitting in the hot tub with Mrs. Ten. We were talking about camping and I was remembering...


A List for Kitten

Kitten is a good sub, loyal and attentive at all times. Many of the details of our life together, like the way she smells, the way she tastes, the way the flowers are arranged...



Kitten and I like to go out for a drive together now and then. The scenery here in the Green Mountains is, frankly, irresistible. During the fall, with the turning of the leaves, it...


Patience, kitten

I usually sit down with kitten to negotiate our scenes on Sunday. There is a perverseness to it, a little “fuck you” to our holy and righteous upbringing that we both enjoy. Also, well,...


Review: Thesexfulness.com

When I was given the opportunity to review Thesexfulness.com I was incredibly excited. After all, any opportunity I am given to learn something new about sex is always appreciated and eagerly pursued. That said,...


Here’s to 2021!??

I suppose it’s telling that it took until super bowl weekend for me to realize I hadn’t written a post about my goals for this year. While 2020 was actually quite a mild year...


The Secrets of My Arousal by Mary Zoso

— 1) — Compliment me.As often as you like. Just make sure it is ALWAYS one hundred percent sincere and specific; never empty flattery. It does not matter whether it has to do with...